Do all guys get erections while making out?

Posted on January 30th, 2010 by admin in Beach Boners

I just started seeing this guy, and we had our third date a few days ago. It’s sort of bugging me because we were making out on a pier at the beach at night (how much more romantic can you get?) and I don’t think he got an erection at all. I’m sure I would know if he did because I was sitting on his lap, pretty much straddling him. Now I’m a little worried, because he’s told me he gets erections in the FROZEN ISLE sometimes. This has never happened to me before, and I’m positive he still likes me as he’s already talking about future dates, including Valentine’s Day. I’m going over his house tonight to watch movies, so what are some surefire ways to turn a man on? And is it over if he can’t get a boner? Lol. Thanks! :)

No not all guys get an erection just when they make out:they need a bit more action:some friction,dirty talk or just touching sensitive parts.
And getting an erection in the frozen isle section can easily be explained:then more blood goes to that area to heat it up:as a result :an erection
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17 Comments

17 Responses to “Do all guys get erections while making out?”

  1. David Says:

    take off your top next time.
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  2. philbear Says:

    Yeah mostly ….. Oh its a lovely feeling!
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  3. Steve Says:

    Assuming he is under 60, then yes!
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  4. Jabril Says:

    No. I’m sure you’ve heard of Erectile Dysfunction. Look at some of the questions on here. Look at some of the T.V. ads – Men that can’t keep it up (erections).

    apparently he likes cold. see I like hot/warm. make sure the room is cold and apparently he’ll get an erection.

    /jabril
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  5. Tim M Says:

    no way. it’s just kissing.

    you would have to put your hand on his groin or something. Let him know you want it.
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  6. People Coriolan Says:

    do more then your lips touching his.
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  7. LOLoneseven Says:

    these other answers were bad so ill say somin -.- , some guys r slower 2 start than others, how do you know he wasnt feeling really sentimental at the time. if you touch him down there directly when you are somewhere private then you should get a response.
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    im a guy

  8. lover Says:

    yes if they are manly enough some also leak surprised eh unless they msbt before hand but erections are guaranteed for men only not half past six kinds u know what i mean
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  9. J@Y Says:

    maybe u should wear a short skirt with no panties underneath and open ur legs nice and wide. that’ll get him hard. and show a bit of cleavage.
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  10. Planets Says:

    No not all guys get an erection just when they make out:they need a bit more action:some friction,dirty talk or just touching sensitive parts.
    And getting an erection in the frozen isle section can easily be explained:then more blood goes to that area to heat it up:as a result :an erection
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    Biology degree

  11. Grubs Says:

    I really wouldn’t worry about it Erin
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  12. TobyF Says:

    No guys don’t always get an erection. He might even be trying not to get one, if he feels it might be inappropriate or too soon. Guys do worry about scaring a girl off by getting an inappropriate erection.

    One way is to tell him it’s fine with you if he gets turned on while on a date.

    Later you could move your hand slowly up his leg and stroke his inner thigh at the top.

    If you do encourage him to get an erection, he may take this as a sign that you want to get more physical in the relationship, so decide if you do want that beforehand, and bring some condoms if you use them, in case he isn’t expecting this.

    Remember that men hope to have sex rather than expect to have it, and be gentle with setting his expectations.

    If he has mentioned that he gets erections, I doubt he will have a problem when the time comes, but avoid putting pressure on him as that could have the opposite effect!
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  13. Pixie Says:

    well every time me and my guy make-out he always gets a stiffy,and if he has a little trouble gettin one,just bop up and down on his lap,that’ll do it
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  14. the voice of reason Says:

    it does not take much for a guy to get a erection so I’m thinking that he has a problem down there or he gay sorry.
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  15. Dan R Says:

    When I make out with my girl friend, I get one and some pre cum as well on my underware. Even touching or hugging her will raise my flag. It’s just hard wired into our brains when we make out or touch a girl we get an erection. It’s normal.
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  16. Erich Says:

    DO you have low-self esteem or what? it doesnt matter if your partner gets hard just the fact you two were together enjoying yourselves is all that should matter your putting too much emphasise on sexuality, not all guys get hard every single second..your worrying about something that really is seriously insugnificant..its not like you two were having sex..thats when you worry about wether your partner can get hard or not, let your date, feel and do what he wants dont worry so much about his body functions…thiers many ways to yurn a guy on, and just cause a guys not hard doesnt mean hes not turned on..Girls seriously need to realize that..its an immature thing to think that the only time a guys turned on is if hes hard..thats complete uttter bullcrap!! I mean if he hard thats just one aspect of the big picture and the same holds true when a guy doesnt have an errection..Id say for you get to know this guy more you just started dating him dont rush things so much it shows more maturity to just accept things as they happen and everythign will fall into place..dont bring up the fact your date doesnt do this or that it just makes things very akward!! one thing will lead to another and what you and him do and want will become reality..I hope I helped Erich..bottom line..TAKE YOUR TIME!!
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  17. Dan L Says:

    its not over, depending on situations sometimes guys won’t get erections, like if he’s nervous or occupied with something else on his mind. i wouldn’t worry about it. he may also have been trying to be a gentleman and hide or withhold his arousal. point is, he seems to really like you.
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